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Post by SageAngel on Mon Jun 07, 2010 6:05 pm

I've never forced him to do anything.. and I have never told him to give up his movies. He had been the one to suggest it.. but he said he was going to throw them away. Which is why I asked him, if he would just sell them if anything else? It would help us with getting out of here.. which WE BOTH want. He doesnt think of his movies as "porno".. he thinks of them as more of an entertainment.. and is more about the plot of the movie. The movies are, in my opinion.. horribly made. But again.. I told him.. do whatever he wants to.. but I wont be in the room if he watches it.. and if the baby is in there.. it better not be on. If the 2 of us arent in there.. he's free to do as he pleases.


As far as his family.. his family is split in many directions as it is.. the only reason we're sticking around is the fact he doesnt trust anyone else to help his dad. I understand this and don't argue. The only fact that I argue, is how people treat him and his dad.. and how they wont stand up for themselves. I understand him not wanting any conflicts.. which is why.. I've tried very VERY hard to keep my mouth shut on things. I had even went and apologized to Jessica for arguing with her yesterday.. this morning.
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Post by SageAngel on Fri Sep 03, 2010 11:14 pm

Hey guys.. long time since I was on here last. I just wanted to come by and update everyone on a few things.

One,.. Anthony and I got into yet another fight.. but this one resulted in him squeezing me until I couldnt breathe.. and finally ended with him kicking me out.. because he said.. "I don't want to hurt you." When I did leave, he quickly went back to how he was.. talking to girls, flirting..calling them and even hanging out with them..all the while talking trash about me to them,.. then turning around to me, telling me he loved me, missed me.. and was getting things set up so I could come back and we could be together without any stress. This all happend June 22nd. Umm since then, I have moved 3 times..the last one being my parents house. All had been within 2 weeks. Umm,.. I had only talked to anthony a handful of times.. and eventually found out everything else at the beginning of august. He called the 2nd week of August because he couldnt get into his account on facebook..and had to complain to me how his life was falling apart..and blah blah blah. Not once asking about me and the baby. That day, my mother and I had gotten into an arguement and I walked to town. A lady helped me out and took me to a shelter.. which we found out really couldnt help me until hours later. I pushed my pride down and asked the lady to bring me home. On the way back, she offered me her cell phone to call anthony.. so i did. I told him what had happend and told him not to call my parents house (he had planned to that night) and told him.. I wasnt sure if I'd be going to a shelter or not. All he could say was.. "Things wouldnt work out between us right now anyways." So that was it for me. I felt hurt.. and didnt know what to do. SO when I came home, I worked things out with my parents and that was it. The next day, my dad calls home and says that anthony had called his cell phone and told him that he would have me thrown in jail if I didnt give him his facebook back by 8pm that night, for hitting him. For the rest of that week, his brother emailed me telling me I should allow anthony to see my baby and to give his account back to him. Then on one of those days.. anthony had gone on to facebook.. calling me a stupid bitch and saying that I was messing with his account because he wouldnt bow down to me, so I could go fuck my daddy. Yet again.. that made it clear to me.. I was VERY done with him. (All of this is a short version of what has happend.. there is just WAY too much to type.)

Anyway,.. I've been going to my doc. apps. and getting things ready for the baby. I'm having a boy! I had ultrasounds done like.. last week? I have the pictures..so I'll have to post them up when I'm not too tired. I've also changed the name.. it's going to be "Matthew Douglas", and I'll be changing my last name to my parents last name..since I don't want to give my son my bio's last name.. :s Anthony never married me.. so I'm def. not putting my son's last name under his. So yeah.. that's pretty much it.

How are all of you? Smile
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Post by Tony* on Sat Sep 04, 2010 1:29 am

I'm feeling quite sad after that post you made..
:< You can always come shelter at my place if you'd ever go to Belgium. ^_^
I'm a more nicer Anthony.. ._.'
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Post by Huni on Sat Sep 04, 2010 2:33 am

Like that was a drama movie...sorry to hear that....and post a pic sometimes in the future with the baby. Smile


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Post by Boomlala on Sat Sep 04, 2010 4:49 am

Aren't ultrasounds the coolest thing ever? They jumpstarted my interest in the scientific field when I was a kid. And the jelly is kinda cool. I also remember that the doctors thought I was gonna be a girl. So my parents were all set on calling me Sophia.

I'm not sure how it works in the USA, but you could get Anthony to pay alimony and child support through the legal system. I mean, he choked you, that's a valid reason not to hook up anymore.

I'm doing fine here, university starts in 2-3 weeks, I'm excited for it.

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Post by Saint on Sat Sep 04, 2010 9:58 am

Hey Heather!
It's alright as long as you're over everything.. and show us the ultrasound prints if you have any ^_^

yay cool to know this time it's a boy!!! (Marc had a daughter last year: Isabelle)

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Re: Serious

Post by SageAngel on Sat Sep 04, 2010 9:04 pm

HEY GUYS!!
Umm.. as far as Anthony is concerned.. I'am going after him for child support. And everything still hurts me.. but I know getting away from him was and is the smartest thing I have ever done. I should have gotten away from him long ago.. and should have listened to ALOT of people. I have learned alot of lessons.. and will be smarter about who is going to be in my life as well as my son's.

Anyways.. I love you guys.. and thank you for being such great friends <3

Tony, thank you for the offer.. lol I'll look you up if I'm ever over there Smile
Boom, good luck with Uni! and congrads!
Huni and and Saint <3

Here is my son, Matthew Douglas Smile

Matthew's face


A little too dark to tell.. but this is Matthew's proof of malehood lol

Matthew's arm and face

Matthew's nose and lips

Matthew's itty bitty feet

Matthew's hand (on the left)

Matthew's body

Matthew's profile

Matthew's face

Matthew's face

Matthew's face



He has everything and looks to be very healthy Smile
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Post by Huni on Sun Sep 05, 2010 2:16 am

cool Smile.....I'll be praying that you and Matt will be one happy family Smile
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Post by Tony* on Sun Sep 05, 2010 4:58 am

I'm not someone who prays, but hoping that everything turns out fine is quite similar, no? ^^
Glad he got everything!! Very Happy
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Post by Boomlala on Sun Sep 05, 2010 7:13 am

Wishing you the best of luck.

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Post by C.O.L.I.N. on Sun Sep 05, 2010 7:29 am

good luck Heather from now on, wish things hadnt take that route but these shit happen...
Hope pregnancy goes well I love you

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Re: Serious

Post by lone on Sun Sep 05, 2010 8:46 am

I don't see much in the ultrasound xD How far are you?
Pregnancy is going to be a though period without a boyfriend. I wish u the best of luck but I'm sure you'll manage ^^

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Post by Boomlala on Sun Sep 05, 2010 10:05 am


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Post by SageAngel on Sun Sep 05, 2010 10:39 am

lol thanks guys <33

The docs say that I'm about 22 weeks.. but because they had guessed I'd deliever on January 11th before the ultrasound.. when it really should be the 6th.. they will just keep it at 21 weeks. So by their schedule.. I'll be 22 weeks on Wednesday. But by the ultrasound schedule, I should be 23 weeks on Wednesday. If that makes any since to you guys? lol

I know things are going to be hard.. but I know I can do it. I also have my parents who have helped me a lot so far.. and they want to be here for both, Matthew and me. So I wont be totally alone. I'm just glad that everything has happend before I had Matthew. I'm sure had I stayed and had Matthew while I was still with Anthony.. things would've probably been worse.

Anyways.. you guys are awesome Smile Love you bunches! <3

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Post by SageAngel on Wed Sep 08, 2010 10:48 pm

Oh.. here's some news I totally spaced on..

When I was at the doctor's a couple of weeks back.. they told me that everything looked fine in my blood and with Matthew. BUT they did find something that may or may not be an issue.

Now.. if you don't want to hear about this... don't continue reading.



Anyway,.. the doctor said that it is normal for girls who are sexually active to get this.. and that the female body normally fights it off within 3 years. So it won't affect me or the baby during the pregnancy. However, there is a chance that after I have Matthew.. if my body doesnt fight it off.. I could get cancer, and may not ever have children again. She said that, males are the carriers of this disease or whatever you want to call it. And that it usually happends when a male has had several partners. It's called HPV. I don't have any symptoms.. but the doctor says she wants me to get checked every time I come into the office. Then after I have Matthew.. I can take some meds and if needed.. begin treatment. I am lucky that Anthony didnt give me anything else.. and that the doctors found this before it could get any worse. I'm scared out of my mind.. but either way.. I've got Matthew. So if I can't have anymore kids in the future.. I at least got to have one.


Sorry if this was waaaay too much info for ya'll. But I wanted to share this, simply because of the fact that ALOT of people don't even know they have HPV. So if you ever are with someone.. get checked first and make sure your all good to go. If you don't, you could really end up regretting it. I always bugged Anthony about his past.. and he never told me. I'd end up finding out a little bit and he still wouldnt say much. Goes to show, that I wasnt very smart. Anyways.. just be careful.
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Post by Boomlala on Thu Sep 09, 2010 8:12 am

They are arranging campaigns (or already have arranged them) to vaccinate every girl for HPV in Belgium and the Netherlands, through state funding.

If this helps you relax, only 5-10% of the women infected with HPV stay infected for longer than two 2 years. These women may develop cervical cancer, but the process generally takes 15-20 years, allowing for ample detection opportunities and high success curing procedures.

Don't smoke and eat lots of vegetables and fruits (vitamins affect HPV infection rates).

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Post by SageAngel on Thu Sep 09, 2010 10:54 am

Heya boom <3 I read that.. just doesnt make me feel comfortable knowing that yet again.. I could have some form of cancer. I was told once along time ago.. but it was a false alarm. A doctor thought a dog bite was skin cancer, when it was just a blood vessel. And now this. I'm trying to stay positive..and no, I don't smoke.. and I do eat a lot of fruits and veggies.. so maybe I should up the anti o.0 lol


Thank you for the info! And I'm glad to hear that girls are being protected against this.
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Post by Tony* on Thu Sep 09, 2010 11:44 am

pine tea has 3 times amount vitamin C then an orange.
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Post by SageAngel on Thu Sep 09, 2010 5:11 pm

I've got my prenatal pills.. and I've got calcium and vitamin C pills too. Oh, and I have plenty of fruits and veggies.. so I just gotta make sure I take everything daily. Shouldnt be too hard Smile
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Post by login* on Fri Sep 10, 2010 5:57 pm

good luck on geting better sage =)
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Post by SageAngel on Fri Sep 10, 2010 9:22 pm

thanks buddy Smile
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Post by lone on Sun Sep 12, 2010 3:55 am

I'm sure you'll be allright sage Very Happy

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Post by SageAngel on Sun Sep 12, 2010 10:33 pm

Thanks hun <3
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Post by SageAngel on Fri Jul 22, 2011 9:31 am

Hey Guys!

Just dropping by and wanted to say "Hey". What's been happening? I don't have internet at my house.. by I come up to the library sometimes to get stuff to read and check emails. Lemme know how things are going with everyone. I've missed you guys <3
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Post by Tony* on Fri Jul 22, 2011 10:37 am

wow, long time no see!
We guys have been doing fine! Everyone has his/her ups and downs. Razz
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