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Post by SageAngel on Sun Nov 08, 2009 4:59 am

Serious Serious Serious question for you guys...


I'm dating a guy.. and I've already met his family and what not.. and his family is always telling me how they know he loves me and how he's stopped talking to other girls because he's so dedicated to me. But what if you know for a fact that, that is a lie? And he tells you he never lies to you, but he does? Am I just freaking out? Or what? I need help guys =(
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Re: Serious

Post by Xris² on Sun Nov 08, 2009 5:14 am

I'd say you're suffering from a severe case of paranoia.
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Re: Serious

Post by SageAngel on Sun Nov 08, 2009 5:24 am

You think so? ...
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Re: Serious

Post by Saint on Sun Nov 08, 2009 5:31 am

well theres always possibility of deceit...
=/ you never know.. best way to know is spending more time with him

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Post by *Hule* on Sun Nov 08, 2009 5:41 am

What Saint says.
But if he's dedicated to you, which would be good ofc, doesn't mean he should stop talking to other girls. There's no wrong in that.

It might be lies, but hey, it might as well be true. Just chill around and spend time with the dude. Smile

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Re: Serious

Post by Saint on Sun Nov 08, 2009 5:44 am

ah from the men's perspective..

i wouldnt spend more than 2 nights or so with a girl i dont love
and i'd ofc never ever introduce her to my family

so your odds are not bad

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Re: Serious

Post by Boomlala on Sun Nov 08, 2009 5:45 am

Paranoia. If the guy cheats, dump his ass when you find out. Until then, don't worry about it or else you might tear down the relation yourself.

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Post by Storm on Sun Nov 08, 2009 7:02 am

Wait, so he has stopped talking to other girls? Something's wrong!

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Post by lone on Sun Nov 08, 2009 7:06 am

the problem is -I think- not that he talks to other girls but that he denies it :/
He's hiding something

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Post by Tony* on Sun Nov 08, 2009 9:23 am

perhaps planning a surprise party.
in all seriousness, I agree with Hule. Razz
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Post by SageAngel on Sun Nov 08, 2009 10:21 am

well here's the thing.. I don't care if he talks to other girls.. but it's the fact I get pictures of him hugging them thrown in my face. Then when he lies about certain things..( which isnt about talking to girls. I know he does.) But of other things.. THAT's what's getting to me. Because each time he has lied to me, his brother would ask him a question about it and he either forgot what he had told to me, or he knew he was caught and just had to tell the truth..and he would answer his brother with a totally different answer than what he had told me. I havent said a word about any of it though,.. because I know I could probably just be paranoid due to past relationships. I just cant help thinking about it.
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Re: Serious

Post by Saint on Sun Nov 08, 2009 10:35 am

now its different..
if he lies a lot, keep away i'd say

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Re: Serious

Post by SageAngel on Sun Nov 08, 2009 10:50 am

Maybe I should just talk to him?
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Re: Serious

Post by Boomlala on Sun Nov 08, 2009 11:08 am

He is obviously not being very honest with you, then.

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Post by daryo on Sun Nov 08, 2009 12:05 pm

tell him you don't like it. actually... what ever bothers you in your relationship...tell him, discuss. Then compromise.

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Re: Serious

Post by Huni on Sun Nov 08, 2009 12:53 pm

If he lies slap him, leave him. If he doesn't stay with him, cuz in this days you rarely find a person who doesn't lie.
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Re: Serious

Post by *Hule* on Sun Nov 08, 2009 2:21 pm

daryo wrote:tell him you don't like it. actually... what ever bothers you in your relationship...tell him, discuss. Then compromise.

Amen, brother.
You should talk to him about the lying stuff. This is only my opinion, but a healthy relationship should be based on reciprocal trust and the fact that both of you can talk about anything to each other.
You won't get any further without bringing up the things that bother you. And if he loves you and you love him there should be no problem in taking it in your face what's bothering the other.

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Re: Serious

Post by SageAngel on Sun Nov 08, 2009 7:40 pm

Well,.. I requested this upcoming weekend off.. I get paid on Friday.. so I'm gonna drive out to his house.. and talk to him face to face.. and see what happends. Something just doesnt feel right,... and I'm gonna set it straight. Thanks alot for your help guys <3
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Re: Serious

Post by Saint on Mon Nov 09, 2009 1:50 am

lawl no worries Heather we're always on your side

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Re: Serious

Post by Storm on Mon Nov 09, 2009 3:18 am

Kind of funny how a girl asks for an honest opinion on the deus legio forums of all forums lol

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Re: Serious

Post by Huni on Mon Nov 09, 2009 5:37 am

you know why?
Cuz we're the best!
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Post by Razor on Mon Nov 09, 2009 5:53 am

Once a liar. Always a liar Sage, you don't want to be with people like that.

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Re: Serious

Post by *Hule* on Mon Nov 09, 2009 7:57 am

That kinda depends on what he's lying about. Talk about it.
Anyway I think people can improve and learn from their mistakes, but if the same mistake happens over and over again you must take some serious actions.

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Re: Serious

Post by Boomlala on Mon Nov 09, 2009 12:00 pm

Courage Wolf always helps.

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Post by Tony* on Mon Nov 09, 2009 12:45 pm

this forum is awesome because of its people. They are so diverse with each their own opinion.
It is never a dull place on DEUS LEGIO!
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